Easy Adulting Tip: Make Your Bed

I don’t mean to sound like your Mom. So bear with me here.

I’ve spent most of my life waiting for the “cleaning” gene to kick in. I figured it was just part of nature. You know – boobs, period, an innate sense of order and cleanliness. But the only cleaning skill that came naturally to me was shoving everything under my bed. I’m wizard level good at that.


But a few months ago, I decided I was going to make my bed every morning. I actually think it’s been one of the best adulting things I’ve started to do and here’s why:


One: It Sets The Tone For The Day

Love this quote from a Navy Admiral “If you make your bed every morning you will have accomplished the first task of the day.”

I don’t know about you but mornings are rough for me. But making my bed first thing, as stupid as it sounds, feels like I’m telling myself and the world that I’m going to get shit done starting…now.



Two: It Sets The Tone For The Evening

Ahhhh, is there anything more delightful than coming home to a welcoming bed?


No, no there is not. It seems so teeny tiny, but having my bed made when I get back makes me feel…better. And apparently it’s not just me. It’s science. In a 2010 study, “women who described their living spaces as ‘cluttered’…were more likely to be depressed and fatigued than women who described their homes as ‘restful’ and ‘restorative.’ ”

Three: It’s Doable

If it takes you more than 60 seconds to make your bed, then there are some bigger issues that need to be discussed. And 60 seconds is generous.

Whether you’re late or cranky or hungover, no matter what you tell yourself, you have 60 seconds to make your bed. You do!

This is especially important for those of us who suffer from depression. When it hits, sometimes simply opening your eyes can be a Herculean effort. This is a great quote from a bi-polar author, “When I’m depressed, it’s critical I choose goals I will likely reach. Otherwise, my quark-sized spark of motivation will kaput.” Yaaaaaas.

When you’re depressed you have to think REALLY SMALL. And guess what’s small? Making your bed. Maybe that’s the goal for the entire day. “Today, I will get up and make my bed.” That’s it. That might be all you get done in which case, you should applaud yourself for being a rockstar and making it happen. Or, maybe, you’ll feel just a little bit better and will come up with another bed-making sized goal you can accomplish.



You got this! Now go make your bed and then get ready for school, breakfast in five minutes! Don’t let me hear you fighting with your sister!

21 thoughts on “Easy Adulting Tip: Make Your Bed

  1. Soooo hilarious!! 100% agree and always make my bed in the morning for the pure bliss of when it’s bed time it’s all snug and inviting. The gifs you’ve used are hilarious 😂 love the first one and wondering where I can get a curtain like that


  2. Ummm! I love this! I 100% stand by the “make your bed” movement. How you describe the feeling when it’s done and then how it feels to get into a bed that was made, is spot on. Having a nicely made bed is just one of those simple pleasures in life. Also, that gif in the beginning had me legit LOL’ing.


  3. I totally agree with you! I make my bed 90% of the time. You would think I’m asking my sons to build an addition to the home when I ask them to make theirs. One is a bunk bed and those do suck to make.


  4. This is so true! I remember when I first started college, I was sooooooo good about getting up and making my bed every day. I was so motivated and got everything done quickly and easily. But as time went on, I got lazier and less motivated and I hated getting into bed because I had to basically wrestle the sheets to get them on top of me (I’m a mover in my sleep). I could feel the change in attitude from making that one little change. I really need to start making my bed every day again!

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